TO BECOME THE HOUSE GEISHA

After a trip to Japan, in 1936, the well-known poet of France Jean Cocteau has returned home under strong impressions. It has found in this country three "pearls": the first was theatre кабуки, the second - struggle сумо and the third, the brightest, Кихару, the woman-geisha. In the Japanese language her name meant Blossoming Spring.

And it is valid, the meeting with the geisha so has affected the poet, that in its shower there has come long-awaited spring. In spite of the fact that it was the homosexual and never paid to women of attention, having got acquainted with Кихару, he has seen what before did not notice in a "weak" half of mankind. Кихару has opened to the poet many-sided nature of female soul and a body. Any man dreams to have at itself such "pearl".

The history tells about many, ready to give the most expensive to turn on itself a sight of the geisha.

Ministers, princes, actors, military - all of them were united by one: desire to be near to the woman knowing secrets of pleasure by a life! The man waits from the darling, that it will be to it both the friend, and the mistress. In a daily life, alas, if the woman the fine interlocutor, it never will draw attention of the man as the mistress. And on the contrary.

Passion in beds and strong feelings, and in conversations disputes and disagreements... As it is frequent, having seen in the street the fine girl, the guy is ready "to get an asterisk from the sky", but there passes time, and it any more does not remember the girlfriend by name. If relations have lasted to family, the fate of many women ненамного differs from the first variant. They turn for the husband, roughly speaking, to the "tooth-brush" daily necessary, but not representing to special value.

In what a secret of the great geishas who have left the trace in history in the form of images on engravings, in the written books and, the most important thing, in minds of men?

The word "geisha" is translated as the person of art. To remain always attractive and mysterious, it is not enough to be born beautiful, it is important to learn art to live. Even if it seems to you, that you do not possess any talents and the necessary data, recollect: the pearl became a precious ornament and has begun to shine the beauty only after has passed clearing and polishing process.

Secret the first. Light (that involves a sight of any person, and sometimes and blinds).

The sense of this word consists at all in the porcelain make-up visible from apart. In Japan girls since small years train to see a life only from the positive point of view. Waking up in the morning, they rejoice to the ascending sun, a touch of a silk attire to a skin.

Despite a tough job assigned to girls by tutors, singing of a birdie in a garden will necessarily cause on their person a happiness smile. Playing, drawing or dancing, the young hetera puts a part of the light soul in each movement. Reaching age of "majority", the girl is literally shone by calmness, confidence and knowledge of happiness.

In daily vanity we have lost attentiveness to the world surrounding us. The soul has hidden behind a dark curtain of insults and cares because of what there is a blindness even to the relatives.

And here Japanese know how to "recover". The recipe idle time: to find harmony with the nature. Much can learn at animals.

For example, at a cat. Always careful mum for the kittens shows to associates calmness graceful and soft gait, causing feeling of admiration and tenderness.

Than we are worse? Any problem разрешима, feel the happy woman, and your light will draw attention of the elect.

Secret of the second. Soul psychology (a way to mutual understanding and a condition of true pleasure).

The knowledge of psychology is one of the important qualities of the geisha. It is always attentive to the interlocutor, is able to observe of its emotions, to catch thoughts, thus invariably smiling. Art to feel the man allows it to open his soul for it, having shown as it is fine! Its motto - to open, but not to alter or arrange at all under itself, in what an error of many modern women.

As the mistress of the house, the geisha cares of beauty of surrounding conditions. Japanese consider, that the beauty ennobles the person in thoughts and acts. Tea ceremony with refined ware, colours in vases and easy movements of the mistress promotes a calmness and confidence condition. Bad thoughts and alarms remain behind a threshold.

That your husband always pulled home, like its thoughts. When it will come from work, meet its tender smile. Make not simply a supper, and a meal, and, having decorated a table beautiful napkins and colours, listen to the husband not interrupting, yours faithfully penetrating. And for good mood tell by the way something cheerful and interesting, after all you "geisha" in the house! Manage to see in favourite better qualities, and he will cease to ego-trip roughly and passively to retire...

Secret the third. Sex on-japonski (sensual merge enamoured).

Gently and flexibly, it is pliable and it is playful - so the geisha proves in bed with the man.

Erotic games against depth of feelings where the major importance is given to tender touches. Emotions are expressed not by groans and shouts, as at Italians, and in silence of silence - sensitive attention to internal impulses of soul and body movements.

Such minutes the sharp sensation of the partner as much as possible approaches you to natural your essence!

Combination of two qualities - the mistress and the friend - will make you the ideal woman for the favourite.